The Woman’s Body Is A Battleground

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In an enlightening class I took last semester, my professor said something that stuck with me long after the class/semester ended, for it held so much raw truth. She said:

“The woman’s body is the battleground upon which cultural and religious wars are fought.”

Being a woman in any given society, whether it may be within South/Central Asia or in the West, there are often triggers of distress and tension, and the constant battle with one’s image and appearance that plays over and over again in a woman’s head like a broken record. We live in a world where, right from the time we are born up until we die, we are told that our body defines us; that our sexuality should be proscribed – protected; and that we should do everything in our power to guard our bodies – our honour – from the enemy: men. And, if we don’t, then the blame falls solely upon us.

While there are some who manage to break free from this never-ending cycle of staring, leering, gawking, examining, judging, etc., most women will, however, be forever stuck in this rut for the majority of their adult lives. The worst part is that some women have even accepted it – accepted that they, their bodies, are the reason behind every incident of sexual harassment, sexual abuse, and all other forms of violence that have been, and will be, inflicted upon them. It has almost become like an unspoken sort of awareness, where a woman suddenly realizes how dangerous her body is to her safety. And if she slips – even once – she will have no choice but to suffer the dire consequences that accompany it.

Furthermore, when we look back at history, especially in the context of war and conflict, women’s bodies have often been treated as territories to be conquered, claimed and marked by the contender. This is why violence, especially sexual violence, against women was and still is quite common during communal/ethnic conflicts. Women would not only be raped but their bodies would be marked in such a way so as to remind the opposing enemy that their women – who are supposed to be pure and a representative of the community’s/nation’s honour – are stained.

Such markings would include stripping a woman naked and serenading her in shame in public; physical mutilation and disfigurement, i.e. cutting off a woman’s private parts, or other parts of her body, such as her nose, ears, hair, etc.; tattooing and branding a woman on her private parts, i.e. her breasts and/or genitals, with hate slogans against the enemy; and other forms of debasements to emphasize conquest and suppression.

Hence, the violation of women’s bodies equates the same political territories upon which the men from the rioting communities would inscribe their markings on. It almost becomes an uncanny sort of relinquishment – a victory, where it becomes blatant that in order to defeat a nation, you must first violate their women. Such atrocious violations against women and that too against their own volition, create a sense of helplessness in communities where a woman’s honour is more important than her life. And in order to revive this honour, members of the community (usually male) have no choice but to kill off every single woman who was either raped or physically/sexually violated in any way. For it is known that a woman’s dishonour is the dishonour of the ethnic race, the community, and the nation as a whole.

Thus, the targeting of women’s bodies is both an effect and a cause of the acceptability of sexual violence against women. It serves to subjugate women further, and creates an environment where violence becomes more accepted and is committed with impunity. And while there is no denying that the blame often falls upon the woman for failing to guard her body from being violated, an equal burden falls upon the shoulders of men who deeply value their women’s honour.

Hence, I personally believe that as long as such societies have established that the woman is a symbol of “honour” and continues to instrumentalize her in such an ignominious way, gender-based violence in these societies will persist, making any iota of progress seem bleak.

Although, not all societies associate women with honour, despite the fact that rape and other forms of violence against women still occurs, there are societies, particularly within the South and Central Asian region, where a woman’s dignity equates her entire existence as well as the existence of those around her. And though it is clear that men, too, are targets and victims of violence, it is the gendered nature of violence that marks women’s experiences as wholly unique.

4 responses to “The Woman’s Body Is A Battleground

  1. surya a nurse from parachinar was killed in an ambulance, humailiated by taliban, woman have to feed thousands of fighters, cook and wash dishes continuesly, wn mortar shells are pounding in their homes, they have funerals of their loved one in their home but still they have to work. They are told to kill themselve before rival catch them. I will search a video in which a old woman is humailiated by taliban after capturing our one village.

  2. My mom was ill last year, she didnt wanted to vist peshawar, coZ there some cases in which convoys of our trbe were kidnapped and are still missing. AND THIS IS THE FACT WITHOUT WOMEN MEN CANT FIGHT. Man become coward and cant fight.

  3. In pashtun culture this is said oftenly ” khaza be darna rawalam” means that man have no honor, his and whole society honor is in their women. Womens are evacuated frm war regions, few are left, so that they feed their mans, she is most vunrable. If man is in trenches, woman is in house, in war mostly houses are targeted, she have to move around continously to cook, take care of live stock. In war enemy target area from where smoke arises so she is again the target, she is the one who have to take care of injureds. A tribe may have lost the war but if they have brought oppsite tribe women they are the winners.

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